ok I need help, advice even opinions on a personal note...... My girlfriend is upset with me, ok let me start from the top: I dont like the fact that she doesnt have a phone, I worry about her not being able to communicate with me or her grandma or us with her in case of an emergency. So becuse she is currently unemployed and without a steady flow of income we discussed buying a pay as u go type of phone, no monthly contract type thing. However money is tight all around and even thou this idea is cheaper right now than adding her to my plan, its still an added expense, I dont mind doing it at all but this is where she got upset, i asked her if i cld hold off a bit maybe a fw weeks or ONE month before I do it, i mean she has survived a few months without it already, so a few more weeks wont hurt. Why the wait, well i am diabetic and I have been given a bunch of new scripts to fill and I have a new carrier for insurance so i dont know what the cost are going to be, also mothers day is right around the corner and i want to do something nice for my mom and sister and her and I's 6 month anniversary is soon which i want to do something nice for her as a surprise but of course it cost money which i have planned before we discussed the phone. i love her very much but what good am i to her if i cant take care of myself, i have made a lot of sacrifices for her without her knowing becuase she feels like i am piting her anytime i mention something in passing, I do it becuz i want to, becuz i love her. but she makes it hard for me to do nice things, to surprise her. i have scheduled off early for that friday (anniversary) she doesnt know i did, i was going to go buy her some chocaletes and flowers then take her out to dinner and she thinks that we are just going out to a movie the next day and i have put away some funds for that and thats why i wanted to wait before i did the phone. she wont talk to me right now, so i probably wont speak to her untill i get home tonight...... its very frustrating